After a death there’s a stretch of admin no will can cover — the frozen bank, the pensions, Tell Us Once, probate, the deadlines. My Estate Guide is the step-by-step plan for it: what to do, who to contact and in what order, across the first 5 days, 28 days and 6 months. So your family isn’t left guessing.
Between the day someone dies and the day the estate is finally settled, there’s a stretch of admin no one prepares you for — a sequence of deadlines, institutions and decisions. Solicitors call it probate. Families just call it the nightmare. Here’s what it actually looks like.
Your children going drawer by drawer, through old statements and a locked phone, trying to work out which banks, which pensions and which policies even exist.
The government’s service notifies the State. It does not notify your bank, your mortgage, your insurers or your private pension — those are dozens of calls, in no particular order.
Accounts freeze on death. Many firms won’t release a penny without the grant of probate — while the bills keep arriving through the door.
That’s the legal deadline to register a death in England & Wales — and the registrar will ask for details only you know. None of what follows is a legal problem. It comes from one thing — no one was left a plan to follow.
They’d work it out eventually — over many stressful months, with frozen accounts, missed deadlines and forgotten policies along the way. They don’t just need your information. They need a plan — what to do, who to contact, and in what order.
Built around the real deadlines in England & Wales. Each step tells your family exactly what to do next — so no one has to improvise.
Register the death (legal deadline: 5 days), order enough certified copies, find the will, secure the home and arrange the funeral.
Tell Us Once for the government — then everyone it doesn’t cover: bank, mortgage, insurers, utilities, private pensions. Ready-to-send letters, in order.
Every account, pension, policy and property listed in one register — so the executor knows what exists and where it is.
The valuation, probate and any Inheritance Tax — due by the end of the sixth month, after which HMRC charges interest.
Debts paid, assets distributed, your wishes respected — with the document checklist a professional will ask for.
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Guided questions and clear sections — no blank-page overwhelm, no jargon, no legal training required. You fill it in at your own pace, print it, and keep it together.
“It’s not something you particularly want to think about, is it? But once I got started, it was surprisingly straightforward. Everything’s now in a folder where my family can find it.”
Early readers received a free copy of the guide and were thanked for their time.
“When my father passed away, we spent weeks looking for documents and trying to work out who needed contacting. Reading this brought back those memories. I don’t want my children dealing with the same confusion.”
“We’d already sorted our wills, so I honestly thought we were organised. Then I realised my children wouldn’t know where half our paperwork was or who to contact. This guide made me think about things I’d never considered.”
“I asked my daughter where she’d find my pension details and bank information if something happened to me. She couldn’t answer. That was a bit of a wake-up call. We’ve now got everything written down in one place.”
“While filling in the financial records, I came across paperwork for an old workplace pension. I’d completely forgotten about it. Made me wonder what else my family might have missed.”
“I showed my son the folder after completing it. He knew about our main bank account but had no idea about the insurance policies or Premium Bonds. That alone made it worthwhile.”
“My husband deals with most of our finances. Going through this together showed me just how much I didn’t know. Not the cheeriest conversation we’ve ever had, but I’m glad we finally had it.”
“The thought of my wife having to deal with the mortgage, bills and bank accounts on her own really bothered me. We’ve started filling this in together. It’s reassuring to know she’ll have something to follow.”
“I wasn’t looking for another book about wills. I wanted something that explained what actually happens afterwards. The sections on notifying organisations and sorting out the paperwork were particularly useful.”
“No complicated legal language, just sensible advice about what needs doing. I particularly liked that it covers things like Tell Us Once, probate and HMRC rather than giving generic advice.”
If you own a home, the Settled Family Pack is the one to choose. Every kit is a one-off payment, delivered by email to print at home, with a 30-day money-back guarantee.
If you own a home, choose The Settled Family Pack — it covers the property side without paying for the advanced estate options.
Probate help from a solicitor runs £1,500 or more. From £29, this is the preparation that makes it straightforward.
Download the kit, read the plan, print the sheets and start filling them in at your own pace. If you don’t feel it helps your family know what to do, just email your support email within 30 days. We’ll refund you in full within 48–72 hours — no forms, no questions.
No — it’s a step-by-step plan: what to do, who to contact and in what order, across the 5 days, 28 days and 6 months after a death. The fill-in records feed that plan so your family can simply follow it.
A will says who inherits. It doesn’t give your family a plan for what to actually do. This kit provides exactly that. The two work together.
From 6 April 2027, most unused pension funds form part of your estate for Inheritance Tax. Your executor becomes personally responsible for identifying every pension and paying any tax due before probate is granted. This kit includes a pension register and nomination safeguard.
No. Tell Us Once notifies government departments only. It does not notify your bank, mortgage lender, insurers, utilities or private pensions. This kit takes your family through all of those, in order.
It’s delivered instantly by email as downloadable, printable PDF documents. You print it at home and keep it together in one folder. Most people have it printed and started within the same evening.
It’s the opposite of morbid: it’s a practical job you do once, calmly — the same feeling as finally getting your insurance in order. You’re organising one last act of care for the people you love. And once it’s in the drawer, it’s off your mind.
My Estate Guide — Protect what matters. Simplify tomorrow.
An organisational aid for families in England & Wales. Not a law firm, financial adviser or substitute for professional advice, and not affiliated with any government body. Rules vary and change — always check with the relevant authority.
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